Have you ever thought of what it is like to be in combat? Perhaps you have had that experience. However, most have not. Imagine what it is like to live in an area inhabited by enemy soldiers possessing the weapons, training, and intent to destroy you.
Living in that environment would alter our demeanor. We would act with greater seriousness and intensity.
This sobriety and intensity is found especially in a leader, who has responsibility for the welfare of those under him. He must maintain an attitude that gets their attention, make them aware of danger, and that motivates them to carry out orders.
“Would you mind bringing some ammunition with you, that is, if its not too much of a burden,” is going to get people killed. Running out of ammo in the middle of the battle because in was inconvenient to carry would spell disaster.
Jesus lived in a combat environment. Scripture tells us that His enemies were looking for a way to kill Him, and they would succeed. More sobering yet was the fact that Jesus had to die to win.
The battle He was fighting was not with the Jewish leaders or the Roman soldiers, both of which would participate in His death. Rather, He was engaged in a cosmic struggle with Satan and the forces of darkness for the souls of human beings.
He asserted that He was meek (Matthew 11:29), but, as previously noted, meekness is not gentleness or mildness, nor was that His demeanor. Rather, He conveyed the intensity and directness of a leader in combat.
As such, He was no Mr. Rogers. His interaction with His disciples resembled that of a Marine Corps drill sergeant. He knew that the welfare of His disciples depended on their attentiveness and obedience.
Scripture often reminds us that we are also involved in warfare. Scripture refers to us as soldiers and calls us to fight. We, too, are also dealing with matters of eternal life and death.
This being the case, living in a combat zone as we do, it would be dangerous to think that gentleness and mildness should be our normal operating mode, as many evangelicals do. Mr. Rogers cannot be our model. This demeanor does not convey the seriousness of the situation. It does not get people to stop deadly behavior. They does not motivate people to life-saving action.
For example, gentleness does not get done the job of discipleship. “I know that for the last three weeks have talked about the need for you to be in Scripture, and you have not made it yet. Don’t let that discourage you. Maybe you will get to it this week.”
How about, “Friend, do you know that the Devil is out to destroy you. You have failed to get to your Bible for two weeks, now. You had better get to it this week or you could be in real trouble. You are wondering around the battlefield without your steel helmet and your weapon. You are going to get yourself killed. Tell me what is so much more important.”
Sure, there are occasions for gentleness, and we see Jesus convey that quality at times. But most of the time He was tough, and we need to be as well if we are going to develop a mature, effective army of Christian soldiers.
Gentleness and mildness are producing spiritual wimps that are losing the battle with the world, the flesh, and the Devil. We could use an evangelical reformation that will replace gentleness with gumption.
Contemplating your posts on meekness raises a question concerning application. I do not consider marriage to be a battle ground and my marriage is not afield, but shouldn’t meekness be applicable in certain situations within marriage/family relationships (as Satan attacks from all vantage points). I have a good friend at work who’s wife is extremely contentious. (Space disallows detail.) He appears to lack true meekness. I once heard teaching that we should never raise our voices. Responses should always be calm and dignified. He follows this thinking. Obviously, we should not allow anger to control us during disagreements, but surely we should be able to apply this meekness to our family relationships as well as our church relationships.
Sincerely,
Neil
Neil, this is a valid point. A biblical perspective of meekness should be applied to every relationship. I think of parents apologizing to their kids, saying: “You deserved the discipline, but you didn’t deserve the anger. God gets angry with His children. Obviously, I am not advocating child abuse, but if our children are being sinful and we are not angry, something is wrong. The wrong view of meekiness has turned us into a weak society.
This entire series about meekness is directly on point in today’s evangelical climate. Can I quote you at my place? Thanks.
Can I quote you, sir?
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